Do you think that being prepared for loss could be a learned behavior? There are a lot of ways in which we can re-learn behaviors or change our patterns. If you were told to expect a great loss in the near future, do you think you could mentally strengthen yourself against that? If you knew it was coming? If you're told that a parent has limited time? If you were told your seventeen year old was on a crisis loop with no end in sight, and no ideas, prepare for the goodbye? There's a wealth of literature for preparing for loss, maybe it is possible.
THINGS THAT MY BABY SISTER IS:
1. An adventurous soul, who will swim in dark and murky water in the middle of the night, to stir up the bio-luminescent flagellates (little amoeba things that make the water look like it's "sparkling" when you swish it around) in the middle of no where in November.
2. A little girl who once said "I hope I have nineteen babies."
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